[ Let’s face it people, telling a skinny chick to eat a sandwich is fucked up and asinine. But it doesn’t have the same utterly ridiculous cultural push and sheer systemic fuckery that fat girls face every single day, from everyone, doctors, family, friends, strangers, teachers, partners, EVERYONE. ]
You know what I do when some piece of shit tells me to go eat a sandwich? I go, “only if you’re buying, fuckwagon.”
And I move on with my life. Cuz people being douchebags? Not the same as oppression. Little bit of fucking perspective goes a long way.
IF you are
5) non gender binary reinforcing
8) no seriously really really fat
9) gloriously nappy
10) Asian/Pacific Islander
12) Strongly built or “over tall”
13) Multiple Combinations and various permutations of ANY of the above
and are in a place where you are alone made to feel alone or pressure yourself to tone it down .
SHOW OUT LIKE YOU HAVE NEVER SHOWED OUT BEFORE!!!!!!!!!! ( only if you are physically safe to do so I am not a person who pretends we all can)
Eat a cake , go for a beautiful stroll as you are as fly as you wanna be, don’t hide your limp, flame/ queen /agro like you never have before.
*GASP* wear a sleeveless t shirt while the flaps breeze and start a wave across the world.
You will not be alone today .
Because doing it, folding in on yourself still hasn’t made the people who feel you need to happy and it wont make you happy.
* rummages for that dress that supposedly has too much “cleavage”
I quit the shame fest for the week